Musings on Bush
Kate Bush that is (get your mind out of the gutter). And more specifically her song This Woman’s Work. It goes without saying that song is a tearjerker. What person born in the 70s or 80s can hear it and not immediately picture Kevin Bacon in She’s Having a Baby sitting in a hospital waiting room with tears streaming down his face while his wife undergoes emergency surgery due to complications during the labor and delivery of their son. What resonates particularly for me in that song is the regret expressed over lost opportunities. “Of all the things I should’ve said that I never said. All the things we should’ve done that we never did.” When my brother, Maurice, passed away at the age of 56, I experienced deep regret. Regret that I didn’t keep in touch with him better. That I didn’t go see him in Singapore or Berkeley or various other amazing places that he lived over the years. At the time, it seemed like not spending money on travel was the pruden...